OnedayIwenttoseemylastpatientanoldwoman.InthedoorwayIsawshewastryingtoputsocksonherfeet.Isteppedinandspokequicklytothenurse.Iwasalmostintheclearthatshewasnotinseriouscondition.
IaskedCouldIhelpputonyoursocks?Howareyoufeeling?Yoursugarsandbloodpressurewerehighbuttheyarebettertoday.Thenursementionedyou’reanxioustoseeyourson.He’svisitingyoutoday.It’snicetohaveafamilyvisit.Ithinkyoureallylookforwardtoseeinghim."
“Sitdowndoctor.Thisismystorynotyours.”Shesaidinaseriousvoice.
IwassurprisedasIhelpedherwiththesocks.Shetoldmethatheronlysonlivedaroundthecomerfromherebutshehadnotseenhiminfiveyears.Shebelievedthatwasthemaincauseofherhealthproblems.AfterhearingherstoryandputtingonhersocksIaskediftherewasanythingelseIcoulddoforher.Sheshookherheadandsmiled.Allshewantedmetodowastolisten.
Eachstoryisdifferent.Somearedetailed;othersaresimple.Somehaveabeginningmiddleandend;othersdon’thaveclearends.Somearetrue;othersnot.Yetallthosethingsdonotreallymatter.Whatmattertothestorytelleristhatthestoryisheard—withoutinterruption(打断)orjudgment(评价).
Itwasthatwomanwhotaughtmetheimportanceofstoppingsittingdownandtrulylistening.AndnotlongafterinanunexpectedaccidentIbecameapatient.20yearslaterIsitallthetime—inawheelchair.
ForaslongasIcould.Icontinuedtoseepatientsfrommychair.Ibelieveinthepoweroflistening.
1.Howdidthedoctorknowthattheoldwoman’ssonwasvisitingher?
A.Thedoctorgotitfromherchartnoting.
B.Theoldwomantoldhim.
C.Thewoman’ssontoldhim.
D.Thenursetoldhim.
2.Whatdidtheoldwomanthinkcausedherhealthproblems?
A.Herson’snotseeingher.
B.Noonelisteningtoherstory.
C.Themedicalcareofthehospital.
D.Thedistancebetweenherhouseandherson’s.
3.Whenthepatienttoldthedoctorherstorieswhatsheneededmightbe___________.
A.keepingsmiling
B.interruptionorjudgment
C.beinglistenedwithoutinterruption
D.communicatingwitheachother
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